Blog By- Dr Jaya Kumar
Human beings are a really complicated species to understand. Sometimes, I feel that we need many more lives to understand and analyse the complexities of the human behaviour.
Though at a broader macro level, we know that our existence has no value, but on the other hand, at a micro level, we are busy playing our own games.
Games to let others down or make them feel down in life. On the face though, we try to prove or show that we are innocent and not know what is happening around us. Strange it is, but true.
We even deliberately try to double-cross each other at times and try that the other person is not able to understand our unwanted and unwarranted game plan. We even try to make sure that the other person never speaks on that issue.
We pull down someone’s morale not by accident but by choice and mostly without purpose.
We keep cheating someone but still try to keep a face reflecting honesty.
Feeling jealous but still exhibiting false appreciation.
Why do we do this as a human being? Do we think and believe that the other person is simply a fool? Why do we let down our own relations?
Do we think that we are too smart and we shall come out of this without being caught?
The answer is big NO.
This attitude shall not only ruin relationships but as person you shall also loose someone’s love and support. Someone who really cared for you.
Someone who knew you well but kept quiet and always smiled because of sheer attachment.
We sometimes become too attached and sentimental for many people in our lives but time shows us that it is both not relevant or required.
We also sometimes attach ourselves to the situations and people so much so that we often neglect ourselves.
The general philosophy of life says that we should act and behave according to our own convenience first.
This may look like a self-centered approach, but in fact has to do more with self-respect and is more calculative and thoughtful.
Sometimes we have to acknowledge the practical reality of life.
That only what is practically correct according to us and convenient to us, should be followed.
Sometimes we have to act smartly as it seems more beneficial given the situation. A true human being shall always be true and honest till the end of his life.
He does not have to worry. He shall be associated with similar good human beings later in life.
I feel it is better to be associated and attached to one true relation than to have hundreds of dishonest relationships.
Our personal convenience also matters in such conditions. So, think twice before any action or making any move.
Our one correct personal decision could be better than what all others think.
SO, OUR CONVENIENCE DOES MATTER, RESPECT IT..
WE SHOULD BE CONCERNED AND ANSWERABLE TO ONLY THAT PERSON WHO IS REALLY ATTACHED TO US AND PROVES IT BY HIS LOVING TREATMENT TOWARDS US.
Thank you for reading…