Burden of divorce & pain of separation for whole life
Marriage is considered as a sacred bonding in all religions and no religion says that couples should get divorce if they do not find each other compatible or suitable after marriage. Life is adjustment and with family one can face all kinds of problems. But if family life disturbs then one collapse and becomes directionless. Not always both partners want to separate. If it happens then one person feels insecure and carry burden of love failure and heart break through out his or her life.
Relations are very delicate
Now a days we find married couples are applying for divorces immediately after few months even in cases next day of marriage irrespective of future consequences. Trust is most important thing in married life. It is like a bubble and one needs to be honest and trustworthy to each other. Ego is another issue, along with faithfulness, lack of love,affection, commitment, extra marital affairs, no time for each other, believing in others words are also reasons for divorces.
In Hindu religion, marriage is the most important ritual. It changes ones life and it is beginning of new life and taking new responsibility, perform your duties happily, do sacrifices and hard work. If you want healthy and happy married life, match making is necessary along with mutual understanding and love. Love is basis of any marriage. If two loves each other unconditionally no one can stop them. It is better to consult learned astrologer if you are below 36yrs.
What shows divorce/marital problem in horoscope
The learned astrologer not only checks panchanga about min 18 points out of 36, nadi dosh or mrutyu shadashtaka but also checks seven important houses to know natives married life are 1st, 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 10th and Rashi Swami.The horoscope given is self explanatory to know why these houses are considered for studying and matching ones horoscope.
Lagnesh in its Vyaya Position or 12th House
Now we will see which planet position shows there is 100% divorce in the persons horoscope. In this chart the Lagnesh is Mars(1) which placed in its vyaya position i.e. in twelveth house, one house back from Lagnesh. So this kundali shows that there is chance of divorce in his or her life.
Saptamesh in its Vyaya Position or Sixth House
In this chart Saptamesh is Venus(7) which placed in its vyaya position i.e. one house back in sixth house. If Lord of Seventh house is placed in sixth house then that kundali shows that there are chances of divorce in his or her life.
Shashtesh in Vyaya Position or 12th House
If Sixth house lord is placed in 12th house(Vyaya) then also there is possibility of divorces in the natives life.
Saptamesh in between two bad planets
It is said that if Seventh house planet or its Lord is placed between two enemy planets then it affects on family life and leads to divorce. In this example Seventh house is between Rahu and Ketu (5th and 9th house) and also Saturn and Venus are placed in 8th and 6th house. It shows that Seventh house is seized in between malefic or enemy planets.
Precaution is better that cure
So if you do not want any wrong things post marriage and want peaceful, happy life better to check the horoscope and get it matched. We are helpless in front of our fate. In many native’s horoscope it shows that there are chances of divorce. Many people are suffering because of divorce or separation though they never thought of it or not do anything wrong. For those people it is advised that if possible they can postpone their marriage till the favorable period comes with consultation.
Happy Marriage tips
Though marriages are made in heaven but have to maintain and make it successful is whole responsibility of that couple. Just being married is not enough but both should enjoy and feel fun, lightness, smiles, happiness is also needed. Happy couples discovers new ways to love and respect each other often and let them grow day by day. They trust each other, there is no place for doubts and distrust, cares for each other, have concern about each other, their love nourishes and blossoms,..Contd
Happy Marriage tips
day by day respect for each other and love must increase which makes strong bonding. Happy couple always want to make partner happy and serve selflessly and tirelessly. Its mutual bonding of true love. Purity of mind is basic qualification of every bride or groom to lead happy married life. Only pure mind is focused, cheerful, peaceful, alert and strong to pursue this relationship and it is possible when he or she serve his or her family & partner with right attitude & follow values of life.
Tips for Happy Married life
Honesty, commitment and readiness to always support, forgive and forget partner is also must to succeed this relation. Both partner should practice spiritual rituals, get together of relatives, spend few minutes together on spiritual discussion, meditate and by interacting with each other to resolve the unwanted or disappointing things as early as possible is always good.
Tips for happy married life
It is said that if any fight last for more than two and half days/month/years it never solves. So try resolve reason of fight within two and half days. One more important thing i would like to say here is accept the person as it is and love them for what they are. Have faith in partner, mutual adjustment and love each other unconditionally (irrespective of material things which never lasts) is ultimate key to success in any kind of relationship.
Believe in goodness
These are all possibilities mentioned in Vedic astrology but i believe in doing good and be honest with ownself. Our goodness many times reduces malefic effects of horoscope too. Think positively towards life. Ignore mistakes of each other. Give positive vibrations to each other. I wish you all best luck and happy married life ahead. Shubham Bhavatu.. Sangeeta Dhamdhere, An Astrologer.